Knew More Before Starting a Long-Distance Relationship(LDR) in an Interracial Dating

A Long-Distance Relationship (LDR) is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when the partners are separated by a considerable distance.Especially those from another race(Interracial Dating) in your city.

This could be from many different factors such as:

• Both partners attending a different university or institution;

• One partner leaving for school or work, while the other stays in the hometown;

• Meeting at a university and going to separate hometowns for summer/semester breaks;

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Can You Be Single Yet Happy? — Dating Tips and Advice

Do these words “Single and happy” sound like a bit of a paradox to you? Are you of the opinion that singles can not be happy? Are you postponing decisions in life only with the by-line, after I am married and settled?

Do you often feel that fun and enjoyment in life can not be fully appreciated unless you have someone to share it with? And do you always think that there is never enough time and monetary resources for a single person, to pursue any experience which bring true happiness ?

If these are your inner gut feel, not to lose hope. Go through the following tips to appreciate your present status in a different perspective. It is possible, through a lot of behavioral changes. The tips highlight how to lead a carefree, fun-filled and balanced existence as a single person, which in turn also paves the path for you to achieve a nice, healthy long-term relationship in future. Continue reading

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Meet Someone

“Sometimes you meet someone, and it’s so clear that the two of you, on some level belong together.

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As lovers, or as friends, or as family, or as something entirely different. You just work, whether you understand one another or you’re in love or you’re partners in crime. You meet these people throughout your life, out of nowhere, under the strangest circumstances, and they help you feel alive. I don’t know if that makes me believe in coincidence, or fate, or sheer blind luck, but it definitely makes me believe in something.” Unknown

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3-Step to Break-up If You Must, But Do it Well – Dating Advice

Breaking a relationship, irrespective of its duration, long or short, hurts both the persons involved. Unless you are basically a selfish and cruel-hearted person, who gleefully enjoys other’s tears. Or a sadist, who sticks to an otherwise unworkable relationship. But taking oneself out of a liaison, without any hurt whatsoever, is rare and difficult. It takes a impeccable sense of refinement, competence and a thorough understanding of the following invaluable “3-step” approach :

There are 3 types of media through which a break-up can happen, face to face, on phone or email . First decide which medium of communication you will use.breakups.jpeg1-300x300

  1. In-person or face to face – This is the most difficult mode of communication in such a situation as the reaction of the other person is completely unpredictable. But if you have been together for long, reactions from the person should be easily presumed, and this happens to be the only way. Though difficult, this mode of communication gives the impression of you being a very honest and sincere person, who speaks upfront about the non-resolvable issues coming in the way between the two of you. Just take care to go to a private place, so that even if you cry your heart out, no body can notice and you don’t create a scene in public.
  2. Phone – This method is best suited for relationships where neither of you have entered into any commitment. If you have seen this person a couple of times, even had a sexual fling, this is the best way where you can make your stand point clear, before the whole thing gets out of hand. This method is also more personal than e mail, which is most impersonal.Blackwhitedating
  3. E-mail – Perhaps the quickest mode of communication available these days, and excellent for breaking the news of a break-up. Shorter you know the person, the more suitable it is. Type the message, keep it short, press send, and bingo, you’re done.

One more option, that we have not touched in Step 1 is “avoidance”, or evading the event or the person. This happens to be the favorite of most people, because most of us, fear any form of confrontation. But nevertheless, this is a good way out, especially if you have just had a casual date or two, and have not had any sexual relationship.

Important to note here is that you should not have had any sexual relationship. However, a word of caution for you guys! Women have a habit of going deep into almost anything and your silence can give mixed or even reverse signals! He must be waiting for me to take the initiative of calling…Perhaps his feelings are starting to get very strong and he does not wish to face it now…etc. So beware guys, evaporating from her life, may not be that easy.breaking-up-feature

Preparation for the final dialogue is important and that is Step 2. Don’t ho hum during this critical meeting. Prepare and rehearse your speech, preferably with the rationale of the break up. Be completely prepared ( do some role play with a friend or by yourself) with any response that this may evoke – be prepared for the worst and be prepared with everything, logically.

The form now decided, the content is the next important issue. What will you say ?In this case, truthfulness and frankness take a back seat. You don’t have to point out how crazy you think some of his/her ideas are.

You also don’t have to let the cat out of the bag by saying its his her body odor which makes you nauseated. Put the blame squarely on your shoulder. The job needs more attention now, you are going through some other personal crisis situation, you need more time to re-organise your life, say whatever, but take it all on you. You will close the deal on a win-win note.635584384980280076588993441

After reading Step 2, if you feel Eureka ! I found the way. Now its over and out. Sorry, for many it does not end so fast and easy. If you are convinced about the tactics in Step 1 and finalise the contents of your soliloquy in Step 2, hold your breath. Have you made sure that its really OVER? For many of us, not firm in our decisions, we tend to keep one window open always.

It could be that we leave our options open, or too sentimental to hurt any one else’s feelings. But let me tell you this is a dangerous thing to do, if you are really serious about the break-up. Be firm and abundantly clear about your true intentions – leave no empty zone through another entry could be made. After all, by breaking-up you are doing both of you a great favour.

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Interracial Couples Discuss Dating Stereotypes

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Leap

Beautiful poem~you are right.When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.So release your wings and leap. Let’s see how far we can fly and how far we can go.

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They say don’t leap but I jumped.

They say don’t fall but I did anyway.

They say wait but I didn’t listen.

They say many things but they aren’t me.

Life is for living and for moments made.

These moments, this moment, it’s living.

I smile when I’m with you. I laugh till my mouth hurts and my belly aches.

When you touch me I feel electric. A live wire come undone.

When you kiss me I feel it down to my toes.

When you fuck me I feel alive. A goddess in the flesh.

“They” are wrong or so I think. They aren’t seeing through my eyes or feeling with my heart.

So I say leap. I say let’s jump. I say don’t overthink just be. I say you are worth the risk.

I do not know what tomorrow holds only what I feel today. Today is for the…

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10 Biggest Romance Characteristics —- Relationships & Dating Advice

It does not matter whether you have over 25 years experience managing one or many relationships or a novice in this zone, each one of us have our own ideas of Romance. The definitions are as diverse as the person whose idea it is. Every relationship starts with romance, but somewhere in between life with its banalities come in the way. Whatever your beliefs and notions may be about Romance, there is a list which according to me are the most common characteristics about Romance: Continue reading

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